- My best friend from high school got married to her high school sweetheart.
- I got the worst haircut of all time.
- I had an emotional breakdown over it.
- I was a bridesmaid.
- With a men's crew cut.
- I - again - had an emotional breakdown over it.
- So did my Mother.
- I got extensions.
- No, I will not elaborate.
- My brother graduated from college.
- The family (including myself) trekked up to northern New York to celebrate with him.
- I almost died while I was there.
- I went to the dentist. This is a big deal.
- So did my Mother. This is an even bigger deal.
- Oh my goodness, I almost forgot: I celebrated four years of sobriety.
Instead of relaying every nook and cranny of the above fifteen points, I've decided that I will post photos that I've taken during these events. We'll see if I can have enough self control to keep this post concise and to the point allowing the photos to speak for themselves (other than my captions).
{Christine looks at herself for the first time in her wedding dress on her wedding day}
{The watermelon bridesmaids before the ceremony}
{Yes, my friends, those bangs are in fact extensions. They hurt. Pain is beauty?}
{Sisters with the soon-to-be graduate. This was before we owned the dance floor.}
{Basically my only calm moment whilst staying at the lake house during brother's graduation weekend in NY. There were cats there. I'm severely allergic to cats. I may or may not have contemplated jumping into the lake never to be seen again, but decided it was probably too cold.}
{A wonderfully poignant quote found in ELLE magazine while waiting for the dentist.}
{It's important that I give a little face time to my cup of coconut milk Capogiro. I can't explain why.}
{To Thine Own Self Be True. Four years of living proof.}
Those are extensions? I thought extensions were to elongate one’s hair; your hair still looks kind of short. But do not misinterpret me, you look beautiful. I am elated that the wedding went well and you had a nice time. Also, on your four years Katie - that is a hell of an acquisition. That is a fucking tour de force of self control and will power. You my friend are one of the strongest people I know and I say that with complete and total sincerity. I just have to point out your four years lands on my Birthday and someone did not call. As a matter of fact no one did, not even my child’s mother made a mention of it, so do not feel bad. Sometimes I go about in pity for myself, but all the while a great wind carries me across the sky – it is just a birthday.
ReplyDeleteI need you Katie. Call me when you can. I’m trying to remember the great wind is carrying me but very often I consign that thought to oblivion.
Love,
Peter